How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:14
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
That's it for today.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Do you like wearing short skirts?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
How do teachers justify punishing a student for fighting back against their bullies?
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
I want to have anal sex, but my wife refuses. What do I do?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What’s the worst thing you caught anyone in your family doing?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What do porn stars do when they get old?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What I need from you?
What if the girl says that drama about you dating here? Is that a bad sign?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What does 'Whose flesh is like the flesh of donkeys’ mean (Ezekiel 23:20)?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Does not procrastinate.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Procrastinates a lot.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.